What does it takes of a husband to be a "GOOD HUSBAND"?

before doctors becomes a good doctor, they must undergo physical and psychological test. it is not required of a doctor to be hospitalized for any reason.
meanwhile, before a lawyer becomes a good lawyer he must learn to play with the laws that he is trying to preserve. it is not acceptable for a lawyer to be convicted.

but what does it takes for a husband to be a good husband?
husbands do err, as humans we are. we drink a lot, we smoke a lot, we fuck other woman...a lot! but we also try to be the best man for our lady. we love our kids, we love our wife, and we want to keep our family intact...as much as we can...but our being human makes us vulnerable and prone to error.

being a husband is a skill that doesn't require any special training course or experience. for most men, it's like they sleep one night with the woman they love, and "puff!..." they're already a husband when they wake up.

so what does it take of a husband to be a better husband?...

let me say, a good and understanding wife...